Friend or Boyfriend / Girlfriend

"Friends, lovers or nothing/ There can be only one/ Friends, lovers or 

nothing/ We'll never be the in-between/ So give it up" 

by John Mayer. 

So you both have been close pals for a while now. Be it movies, coffee, or casual 

Saturday outings, you've share it all. Both of you share almost everything under the

 sun with each other, even the guy or girl you have dated. He has all the traits of a good 

guy friend. Then all of a sudden from nowhere, you see a change in both of you. You both

 don't realize it, but you've started caring about each other a little more and differently

 than ever. This is where you are caught up, between whether you like him as a friend 

or boyfriend. 

All of a sudden you see that your easy going friendship acquires a new form.

 There are moments when you feel the budding romance. The feeling is more

 endearing than before. 

Is cupid working its way then, you question yourself. 

For a girl  the differences between a friend and Boyfriend, at times becomes

 difficult. A friend  tends to care about you, and so does a close male friend

 and a boyfriend. 

If this is your case, then given below are few points by which you can find 

out whether he is your friend or boyfriend. 

Is he a Friend or Boyfriend

Your common pals make obvious comments

When you hang around with your buddies, they start making sweet remarks

 about you and your cute guy friend. They compliment, by saying that both of 

you look good together and that there is an awesome compatibility you both

 share. 

This has been true in most cases that its friends who see the first romantic

 spark between  couples. This can make you ponder, whether your guy pal

 has the traits of a boyfriend.

You receive daily calls, often right before your bedtime 

If you are wondering, whether he is just a friend or more, this is yet another

 point to help you out. You might not have noticed, but receiving regular calls

 from your close male friend has now  become a daily affair. You people talk

 and time just passes by. You talk about "how was the day" and other varied topics.

 As the days pass by, you look forward to these conversations. When you don't get

 to speak to him you feel that the day isn't going right. This shows that you have fallen

 for your friend.

You call each other by pet names 

You address each other by pet names and endearing terms. You feel good 

when he calls you by these names. You feel happy when he addresses you

 differently than others. There is a romantic sense of belonging now that you

 both share and feel. 

Body Language 

You will notice a certain change in your guy friend's gesture and body language

 towards you. One of the telling signs that he likes you, is that the casual pat on 

the back now becomes a loving nudge. You will find yourself walking for hours 

hand in hand in a park, talking almost about everything. 

These are certain affectionate love signs that you should look out for.

No more be puzzled in love. Keep these simple points in mind and you

 will soon find out, whether he is a friend or Boyfriend. 

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The Ultimate Gift

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The ultimate gift you give to another won't cost you a cent. Put away your credit cards; you won't need them when shopping for the ideal gift. You already have it, it's a unique gift, and it's waiting to be given. The ultimate gift is your unconditional love.

The Ideal Gift

Unconditional love is an ideal gift because it also benefits the gift giver. Giving unconditional love can help you be happier, healthier, and live longer.

What is Love?

Everyone has love to give. It's an inexhaustible resource, the equivalent of being independently wealthy. The more love you give, the more you have. It never runs out. Love tends to defy specific description, yet is well understood when experienced.

Most of the world's religions espouse love, forgiveness, and generosity. Followers are urged to give with the promise of future heavenly rewards. Now scientific research studies support what religion has been urging. Scientists find that generous loving behaviors bring us benefits in this lifetime, too. Those who give generously with a sincere intention of helpfulness are happier, healthier, and live longer.

Stephen Post's Research Findings

A Christian Science Monitor web article of July 25, 2007 reports some 500 studies have shown the power of unselfish love. "It's abundantly clear from a number of studies that people who live generous lives also live happier lives," says Stephen Post, bioethicist, Case Western Reserve University.

The study findings include:

• Generous behavior reduces depression and risk of suicide in adolescents.
• Actively helping others during the teenage years promotes good physical and mental health all the way into late adulthood.
• Volunteerism on the part of older adults significantly reduces mortality.
• Giving to others enables people to forgive themselves for mistakes, a key element in well-being.
• Praying for others reduces health difficulties among older adults.

Love is Free and Abundant

The fascinating aspect of love and giving is that it is within the power and ability of each of us. We each have an inexhaustible storehouse of love. We're born with a never-dwindling supply of love, like an inexhaustible bag of gold in a fairy tale. And the storehouse doors are easily opened wide with an action available to all of us--the decision to love unconditionally.

Giving your unconditional love is a freeing experience because it requires giving up your judgement of others. It involves loving others just because you've decided to love, rather than because of what another person does or doesn't do.

"To win at the game of love don't keep score," anonymous

Begin Giving the Ultimate Gift

Start your journey on the path of unconditional love with your closest relationship. It doesn't matter if this is a romantic relationship or a parental, sibling, community, or professional relationship. Decide right now to feel love for the person you've picked, regardless of their behavior. Focus on the characteristics of this person that you most admire. And keep those in mind even as you observe their idiosyncrasies.

Expand your decision to love unconditionally once you recognize the way it eases your life and boosts your feeling of well being. Then extend your gift of love to all living beings, human, animal, plant, and beyond.

Love of Self

One cautionary note, giving unconditional love does not mean that you submit to abusive behavior, verbal or physical. Loving yourself, too, means that you separate yourself from those whose behavior is hurtful, loving, but from a distance.

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The Ultimate Gift

Read more: The Ultimate Gift: Give Love Generously for an Easy Life, Health, and Happiness 

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The ultimate gift you give to another won't cost you a cent. Put away your credit cards; you won't need them when shopping for the ideal gift. You already have it, it's a unique gift, and it's waiting to be given. The ultimate gift is your unconditional love.

The Ideal Gift

Unconditional love is an ideal gift because it also benefits the gift giver. Giving unconditional love can help you be happier, healthier, and live longer.

What is Love?

Everyone has love to give. It's an inexhaustible resource, the equivalent of being independently wealthy. The more love you give, the more you have. It never runs out. Love tends to defy specific description, yet is well understood when experienced.

Most of the world's religions espouse love, forgiveness, and generosity. Followers are urged to give with the promise of future heavenly rewards. Now scientific research studies support what religion has been urging. Scientists find that generous loving behaviors bring us benefits in this lifetime, too. Those who give generously with a sincere intention of helpfulness are happier, healthier, and live longer.

Stephen Post's Research Findings

A Christian Science Monitor web article of July 25, 2007 reports some 500 studies have shown the power of unselfish love. "It's abundantly clear from a number of studies that people who live generous lives also live happier lives," says Stephen Post, bioethicist, Case Western Reserve University.

The study findings include:

• Generous behavior reduces depression and risk of suicide in adolescents.
• Actively helping others during the teenage years promotes good physical and mental health all the way into late adulthood.
• Volunteerism on the part of older adults significantly reduces mortality.
• Giving to others enables people to forgive themselves for mistakes, a key element in well-being.
• Praying for others reduces health difficulties among older adults.

Love is Free and Abundant

The fascinating aspect of love and giving is that it is within the power and ability of each of us. We each have an inexhaustible storehouse of love. We're born with a never-dwindling supply of love, like an inexhaustible bag of gold in a fairy tale. And the storehouse doors are easily opened wide with an action available to all of us--the decision to love unconditionally.

Giving your unconditional love is a freeing experience because it requires giving up your judgement of others. It involves loving others just because you've decided to love, rather than because of what another person does or doesn't do.

"To win at the game of love don't keep score," anonymous

Begin Giving the Ultimate Gift

Start your journey on the path of unconditional love with your closest relationship. It doesn't matter if this is a romantic relationship or a parental, sibling, community, or professional relationship. Decide right now to feel love for the person you've picked, regardless of their behavior. Focus on the characteristics of this person that you most admire. And keep those in mind even as you observe their idiosyncrasies.

Expand your decision to love unconditionally once you recognize the way it eases your life and boosts your feeling of well being. Then extend your gift of love to all living beings, human, animal, plant, and beyond.

Love of Self

One cautionary note, giving unconditional love does not mean that you submit to abusive behavior, verbal or physical. Loving yourself, too, means that you separate yourself from those whose behavior is hurtful, loving, but from a distance.

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5 Financial Miscues in the Name of Love (part 1)

True Love  means never having to say you're sorry. Or, alternately: "I'm taking you to court because you've ruined me financially."

When a couple is in love (or at least think they are part of something destined for "happily ever after"), the temptation is to share and share alike. What's mine is yours -- "mi dinero, su dinero."

Sadly, intertwined finances can be disastrous if the relationship does fray. In fact, money problems can be the source of friction that sours a relationship.

"I really think that people's emotions can override their common sense," says Gail Cunningham, of the National Foundation for Credit Counseling , the nation's longest-serving nonprofit credit counseling organization. "When you are in love you can look at life with rose-colored glasses if you want to, but don't look at your finances with them on. Make financial decisions with your head, not your heart."

The following are five ways couples can set each other up for financial woes:

Co-signing a loan 
On the surface, co-signing a Loan for your beloved may seem the right thing to do. Your partner might need to buy a new car or get a student loan. The former may be a necessity, the latter something that can offer a significant upside for your future together.

Be wary, though. It is not just your signature on a piece of paper. There are repercussions that can hurt your finances and creditworthiness for years to come.

Your significant other might be a wonderful person and seemingly responsible. But be honest with yourself: There is a reason they needed to ask for a co-signer. If it is because they don't earn enough to qualify, what makes you think they can handle an additional monthly bill? If past credit problems makes getting a loan on their own impossible, that may very well be a portent of how seriously (or not) they treat their responsibility to creditors and, by extension, you.

If your partner defaults on the loan, whether or not you are still a couple, you will be on the hook. Debt collectors will typically go after low-hanging fruit when they look to recoup money; if they think your former love can't, or won't, pay up, they are going to set their sights on you.

Not only will you have bill collectors hounding you, but your credit rating will suffer. Even if your partner does make reliable payments, you may feel a pinch. Even if it is not "your" loan, in the eyes of the credit agencies being a co-signer means it can be treated as such for your ratio of debt to credit.

Paying their bills 
In most relationships, one party will out-earn the other. Setting aside the prospect of bruised egos, there is an even bigger worry to be had.

Especially with young couples, one or both parties may be a bit immature when it comes to bill paying. Perhaps mom and dad always took care of such things. Or maybe there is the thought that your relationship is a trial run for marriage, when it doesn't really matter who pays for what? Well, it does matter. Couples need to carefully think about when, how or if they should pool resources into joint accounts. Before decisions are made, make sure to have a serious, detailed discussion about each other's financial history, future prospects and attitudes about spending and saving.

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