Jersey Shore and the relationships

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If you're new to "Jersey Shore," it may be hard to believe. But there are more to relationships than just Sammi and 

RONNIE. In fact, there have been enough hookups amongst the housemates to make your ordinary afternoon sudser blush. So, here's a quick refresher course about "Jersey Shore's" close family relationships...

Mike - We all know THE SITUATION likes the women. But he's found time for a couple of roommates so far, too. He made out with Snooki not once but twice during the first season, mostly harmless kissing while in the hot tub.

Then there's the Sammi situation. Before Ronnie entered the picture, Mike had the hots for Sweetheart. Early in the first season, they were even shown holding hands while walking along the Boardwalk. Of course, that nascent relationship was torpedoed once Sammi turned to Ronnie.

Also: Bromance points for the pairing of Mike and Pauly, coincidentally, the only one who didn't want to throw Sitch under a bus during the first season.

Angelina - Nothing onscreen, although she and Pauly have copped to a fling while in California. Of course, she doesn't have the body of work the rest of the house has, and she did have a boyfriend while living in the house last season.

VINNY - Aside from a suggestive night spent cuddling with Snooki earlier this season, Vinny gets shut out. Unless you count his hanging with and hitting on Mike's sister last season. A sister, we were reminded, looked an awful lot like her older bro.

JENNI - Another housemate with a boyfriend, making Jenni among the more chaste of the "Shore" mates. ... Unless you count a few close encounters with Pauly in the opening episodes of the series. For all her posturing in the opening credits about eating men alive after sleeping with them, it's been much ado about nothing.

Ronnie - Until this season, he's been a one-woman man. Now he's a one-woman on each arm at all times, doesn't matter if they're the same women or not man. But as far as the house goes, it's Sammi or bust. I don't think the others would touch him with a 10-foot pole at this point, as much for incurring the wrath of Sammi as for seeing how he treats his women.

SNOOKI- Like Mike, a housemate who's hopped around a bit. She slobbered all over Mike at the beginning and end of season one, then talked a good game about hooking up with Vinny this season before both of them collapsed into alcohol-fueled stupors.

SAMMI - We all know about Ron, ad nauseum. But we can forget about her Mike flirtation. It's something I can totally see being rekindled if the timing and circumstances are right. But I'm guessing she won't risk getting burned again. I'd hope not, anyway.

PAULY D - Pauly's such a nice guy, it's almost hard to believe he's in the Two Housemate Club with Mike and Snooki. Almost. I mean, we've all seen him with Situation, getting his groove on with anything that moves, even the occassional grenade. Could he branch out and snare Snooki or Sammi? I wouldn't bet against it.

So, there you have it, you're handy little "Jersey Shore" relationship crib sheet. I could go on, revisiting outside hookups. But while the online world is vast, I'm not sure it's big enough to chronicle all of that. What is your favorite "JS" hook up? What coupling would you pay to see happen? And if someone eventually ended up with every roommate of the opposite sex, would that be the equivalent of the Grand Slam? Discuss amongst yourselves, then return tomorrow for two questions heading into Thursday's episode.

Ending a Relationship - Knowing When it is Time to Let Go

At some point in our lives there may come a time when it is time to leave a relationship. This could be a friend, a lover or a spouse. It is often one of the hardest decisions we will ever have to make. Many of us hold on long past the point we should have let go. When we have done all we can do, tried all we can try, its time to move on. Heartstrings can be tough and hard to remove, we are after all emotional creatures and the act requires nothing short of courage. In order to avoid the pain we struggle with our desire to stay in the relationship, deep down knowing it is time to move on. We may question whether we are doing the right thing, whether happiness exists, and we may wonder if it is better if we stay where we are, and try to make the best of things.

Our relationships should nourish and support us

There often comes a time when we have to evaluate our relationships to see which ones are working and which ones aren't. Are they having a positive effect on us, or bringing us down. Relationships are meant to support and nourish us, not make us unhappy or feel hurt. We may find that we have been wasting precious time and energy on relationships that have long run their course. Happiness is our human birthright. We can accomplish much more in life when we surround ourselves with people who understand, value and respect us. Life can be hard enough without being with people who drain our energy.

Focusing on the future can help us end a relationship

Deep inside of us we know we deserve to be happy, no matter where or who we find ourselves with. It takes a summoning of courage to move away from relationships that are holding us back. Taking the first steps are always the hardest. By keeping our eye focused on the future we can begin to detach our heartstrings from those with whom we no longer fit. Realizing that every step we take brings us closer to a relationship that does work, helps us to keep focused on the future.

The most important relationship we have is with ourselves

The process of letting go of relationships that hurt us isn’t about abandoning people, it is about shifting our relationships to the kind that will support and nourish us. As we grow and change in life the people around us often must also. Relationships that are abusive in any way require that we step out into the unknown if we are ever to find happiness and a sense of self-worth. The journey to finding the right relationship begins with being in right relationship with yourself.

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VALENTINE´S DAY MESSAGES

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  MISSING TWO DAYS FOR VALENTINE'S DAY, AND IF YOU STILL DON´T KNOW WHAT TO WRITE ON THE CARD THAT YOU ARE GOING TO GIVE YOUR COUPLE OR A PERSON THAT YOU LIKE. HERE WE WILL LEAVE SOME MESSAGESTHAT COULD BE USED.

The way you look into my eyes, It scares me

The way you say "I love you", It scares me

The way you know just what to say, It scares me

The ways you scare me, I love it

You tripped me, so I fell for you.

Good days come often, Bad days do too, But the best days only come when I'm with you.

Let these words not only touch your eyes, let them travel through your soul, and let them rest in your heart as you rest in mine. I love you.

In case you didn't know, I'll be loving you always and forever!

Words alone will never be able to express the depth of my love for you.

On Valentines Day I Want To Tell You This
Knowing You Is An Extraordinary Pleasure
Your Caring Heart Is Always Quick To Give
You are Unique A Rare And Very Special Treasure
HaPpY VaLentiNe DaY

I will love you until my heart stops beating.

Each time I miss you a star falls from the sky, So if you look up at the night sky and find it dark with no stars, its all your fault, you made me miss you too much.

I wish I was your blanket, I wish I was your bed, I wish I was your pillow underneath your head, I want to be around you, I want to hold you tight, and be the lucky person who kisses you goodnight.

3 Valentine's Day Gifts He'll Love

We will suggest to you 3 types of gifts, you can give your boyfriend on valentine´s day, inexpensive gifts, creative and very orginal! ...

A Panty 

If your guy has a thing for sexy underwear (and really, what guy doesn't?), send him a message that's way more memorable than a drugstore greeting card — a Panty Gram. He'll receive a lacy red thong with a flirty,personalized message from "his secret admirer" that directs him to the Panty. 

Sexy Bands

You've probably seen Silly Bandz, well, everywhere. But your guy can be the first to rock Sexy Bands. Slip him a pack of six, which contain six sex position outlines. They look like normal bracelets when he wears them, so the real meaning behind his new accessories will be your little secret.

The Naughty To-Do List

Men aren't known for being the greatest communicators, but with these racy notepad, he won't have to do anything more than check off a box to let you know what he wants. With some serious, some hilarious wants for him to check off (we're big fans of "drop your drawers"), your guy will be more than satisfied. 

Valentine's Day Poems

If you want to dedicate Valentine's Day poem that person you love so much, then we recommend these poems for your soul mate in this special date for love.

 The Night Was Made For Romance

The night was made for romance.

In the night our two hearts dance.

Under the stars our lips touch.

In the garden your embrace means so much.

The night was made for love.

Our hearts cooing like a white dove.

Your eyes sparkling like diamonds so white.

I love you darling with all my might.

The night was made for caring and trust.

And darling, God made this night for us. by: Lamar Cole

Beautiful Eyes, Beautiful Face
Beautiful eyes, beautiful face,
I'm shy to talk to you.
You're the eagle I must watch
No matter what I do.

You're the beauty, wild and free,
The mistress of my eyes,
Rolling through exultant air,
Alone in pristine skies.

I would take you for my own
Could I but have your wings,
Could I but go where night begins
And frozen sunlight sings.

Could I but have you for my love,
How might we fly together!
But I must watch you from below
And long for you forever.
But I must be the one below
And long for you forever.

A Special World

A special world for you and me

A special bond one cannot see

It wraps us up in its cocoon

And holds us fiercely in its womb.

Its fingers spread like fine spun gold

Gently nestling us to the fold

Like silken thread it holds us fast

Bonds like this are meant to last.

And though at times a thread may break

A new one forms in its wake

To bind us closer and keep us strong

In a special world, where we belong.

- Sheelagh Lennon -

What I Love About You

I love the way you look at me,

Your eyes so bright and blue.

I love the way you kiss me,

Your lips so soft and smooth.

I love the way you make me so happy,

And the ways you show you care.

I love the way you say, "I Love You,"

And the way you're always there.

I love the way you touch me,

Always sending chills down my spine.

I love that you are with me,

And glad that you are mine.

- Crystal Jansen -

HISTORY OF VALENTINE'S DAY

Every year, the fourteenth day of the month of February has millions across the world presenting their loved ones with candy, flowers, chocolates and other lovely gifts. In many countries, restaurants and eateries are seen to be filled with couples who are eager to celebrate their relationship and the joy of their togetherness through delicious cuisines. There hardly seems to be a young man or woman who is not keen to make the most of the day.

The modern St. Valentine's Day celebrations are said to have been derived from both ancient Christian and Roman tradition. As per one legend, the holiday has originated from the ancient Roman festival of Lupercalis/Lupercalia, a fertility celebration that used to observed annually on February 15. But the rise of Christianity in Europe saw many pagan holidays being renamed for and dedicated to the early Christian martyrs. Lupercalia was no exception. In 496 AD, Pope Gelasius turned Lupercalia into a Christian feast day and set its observance a day earlier, on February 14. He proclaimed February 14 to be the feast day in honor of Saint Valentine, a Roman martyr who lived in the 3rd century. It is this St. Valentine whom the modern Valentine's Day honors. 

According to the Catholic Encyclopedia, there were at least three early Christian saints by the name of Valentine. While one was a priest in Rome, another was a bishop in Terni. Nothing is known about the third St. Valentine except that he met his end in Africa. Surprisingly, all three of them were said to have been martyred on 14th February. 

By the Middle Ages, Valentine became as popular as to become one of the most popular saints in England and France. Despite attempts by the Christian church to sanctify the holiday, the association of Valentine’s Day with romance and courtship continued through the Middle Ages. The holiday evolved over the centuries. By the 18th century, gift-giving and exchanging hand-made cards on Valentine's Day had become common in England. Hand-made valentine cards made of lace, ribbons, and featuring cupids and hearts began to be created on this day and handed over to the man or woman one loved. 

This tradition eventually spread to the American colonies. It was not until the 1840s that Valentine's Day greeting cards began to be commercially produced in the U.S. The first American Valentine's Day greeting cards were created by Esther A. Howlanda Mount Holyoke, a graduate and native of Worcester. Mass. Howland, known as the Mother of the Valentine, made elaborate creations with real lace, ribbons and colorful pictures known as "scrap". It was when Howland began Valentine's cards in a large scale that the tradition really caught on in the United States.

No matters what is the reason to celebrate Valentine's Day, it is second among the largest card-sending holidays celebrated across the world today.

VALENTINE´S DAY IDEAS

Celebrating love is a great idea for a holiday, but I'm not convinced that packed restaurants and overpriced meals are the right way to do it. Try a few of these ideas that can provide all of the romance and memories without the hassles:

Romantic Getaway

Spend the night away from home at a nice hotel in the city or a quaint cottage with a fireplace in the country. Bring candles, massage oil, some interesting bedroom wear, and stay in for the night. Order room service and spend the entire evening relaxing in the jacuzzi, talking, dancing, playing games, and just being 

together in your robes.

Couple's Massage

Get pampered by scheduling a few therapists to come over for a surprise treat or take your date to a day spa for a couple's massage, champagne, and relaxing.

Romantic Theme Night
This is like our normal theme date but it's up to you to give the night a romantic twist. The idea is to have fun transforming your place into a fantasy setting for the night. Maybe you surprise her with dinner in Paris complete with a cardboard Eiffel Tower, French music, berets, and a great French meal followed by a foreign film (a French maid's outfit might be fun too). Or you could go crazy with it and treat him to something like a Heaven and Hell theme where one room is decorated with lots of white balloons and sheets with harps playing, while another (the bedroom) has a red lights and...well, you know. Use your imagination!

Picnic in the Country
Celebrate the day by taking a scenic drive to the country and enjoying a picnic at a romantic lake, meadow, or beach. Put together a mix of your favorite sappy love songs for the drive out and pack a meal using some of our picnic ideas. When you're finished soaking up the view, head home for dessert, wine, and a candlelit bath.

LOVE OR LUST? WHICH IS BETTER-?

Love and relationships are a major part of the human experience. But the people confuse most of the time love with lust, then what is the difference between these two. In which love or romantic attraction for someone elevates our dopamine and serotonin levels, which causes feelings of elation and loss of an appetite. When we get to the point of feeling attachment and more long term phase of love, our bodies generate more oxytocin (known as the "hormone of love". While lust, is a sex drive and an appetite for sex can visit during this process and is generated be increased testosterone levels in both men and women. Heightened levels of testosterone inspire a feeling of focused attention and sexual arousal.

Now you know they are two different things but are joined, but what makes you happy is love...

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